Self-Publishing for Self-Esteem: A Soulful Guide to Becoming a Published Author

Linda Wagner
Aug 11
4 min read

Have you ever felt a quiet nudge from your soul to write a book? Maybe you’ve imagined seeing your name on a cover or holding your very own story in your hands. I’ve been there, and I followed that calling. Now, as the author of two original faerie tale books, I'm here to tell you: you can do it too.

Recently, I led a workshop on writing for publication and was reminded that the path to self-publishing is more than just getting your work out into the world; it’s a journey of self-trust, belief, and creative empowerment.

✨ Why Self-Publish?

Self-publishing isn't just about printing a book; it's about reclaiming your creative voice and stepping into your personal power. It allows you to bypass traditional gatekeepers and connect directly with your audience, on your terms. More importantly, it nurtures self-esteem and belief in your own vision.

If you've ever felt frustrated, insecure, or unsure of how to make your publishing dream a reality, know this: you're not alone. The journey can feel long and winding, but it's filled with magic if you know where to look.

📝 Soulful Tips for Your Journey

1. Write and publish from your heart.

Your story has a pulse. It's meant to be shared. When you write from the soul, your readers feel it. Don’t worry about trends or what sells, write what moves you.

2. You are worthy.

Your voice matters. Your story is valid. There's someone out there who needs your message.

3. Be realistic but stay positive.

Publishing is a process. It takes time, patience, and a learning curve. Don’t give up when the road gets bumpy.

4. Expect and overcome frustrations.

Writer's block, rejection, overwhelm... they happen. Let them teach you instead of stopping you. Take breaks, breathe, and return stronger.

5. Time is on your side.

There is no perfect deadline. Go at your own pace. You don’t have to rush, but don’t endlessly delay either.

6. Write regularly.

Even if it’s only ten minutes a day. Commit to your craft. The act of writing builds momentum and clarity.

7. Study your industry.

Visit bookstores and libraries. Compare styles, formats, covers. Learn what draws you in and what doesn’t.

8. Join the community.

Enter contests. Join writing groups. Seek feedback. The writing community is filled with support, knowledge, and opportunity.

9. Use your resources.

There are endless tools available (free courses, blogs, social media groups, podcasts). Absorb knowledge like a sponge.

10. Learn the publishing process.

From ISBNs (International Standard Book Numbers) to layout, editing, to marketing, get familiar with the steps. Empower yourself with information.

11. Enjoy the process.

Don't wait until you're published to celebrate. Enjoy the creative process. Treasure the writing days, the breakthroughs, even the setbacks.

12. Keep a journal.

Log your progress. Use it to brainstorm, to reflect, to dream. Let it become your writing companion.

13. Video record your process.

Capture your thoughts, victories, and struggles. This is a part of your story, too.

14. Share and promote.

Use social media to talk about your book. Post about your journey. Don’t be afraid to let people in.

15. Create physical media.

Design flyers, bookmarks, postcards. Think ahead to launch day!

16. Understand the business side.

Know your pricing, your royalties, your costs. Learn about budgeting, taxes, and how to sell effectively.

17. Use smart marketing strategies.

Learn from others. Follow authors who are marketing successfully. Invest time in learning how to connect with your readers.

18. Trust your progress.

You’re doing more than you think. Don’t let comparison steal your joy.

19. Silence your doubts.

Doubt will come, but you can choose not to listen. Remind yourself why you started.

20. Celebrate your dream.

Honor your courage. Whether your book is on a shelf or still in progress, you’re making magic.

🌿 Journal Prompts to Begin Your Journey

1. Dream Big.

List as many book ideas as you can think of. What genres do you feel called to explore? Which ones are whispering to be written?

2. Narrow the Focus.

Pick your top 3 ideas, then choose ONE. Trust your instincts.

3. Explore Your Why.

Why do you want to write this book? Do you have a message to share? A story begging to be told?

4. Choose a Title and Subtitle.

Brainstorm three possible titles and subtitles for your current idea.

5. Write Your Hook.

Draft a short paragraph to entice your ideal reader. What will make them want to read more?

6. Identify Your Genre and Audience.

Fiction? Non-fiction? Memoir? Who are you writing for?

7. Begin Your Outline.

Start with your title, subtitle, hook, and a short intro. Add a bio and begin organizing chapters by title.

8. The Proposal.

Later in the process, you may create a proposal with your book’s purpose, audience, summary, platform, and more.

9. Build Your Platform.

Get active on social media. Build a mailing list. Make connections in the publishing world.

10. Visualize Your Success.

Imagine holding your book. Picture your launch party. Feel the joy of receiving your first royalty check.

🌊 Where Do You Go from Here?

Your story is part of your legacy. A book is forever. Even if you never know the names of those you touch, your words will find their way to those who need them.

You don’t need permission to begin. All you need is the willingness to believe. Cherish your dream, trust your voice, and begin.